chat Adulterating Your Adult Life…..



Weird and Wonderful here and I am going to introduce you to all the things we cannot forget we have. I am going through a John Lennon phase and I think this is because I want to make my life simple. John Lennon, yes the Liverpudlian, who was the lead singer in The Beatles wrote a song about:


All we need is Love”

It is an extremely long title, however, a huge title with a lot of meaning. It is quite simple in lyrical form. It could be argued when you look at how weirdly popular this song is, then you begin to believe that we really crave simplicity. We all need to not have an adulteration to our lives.

Now, if you have not heard this song for a while, please, do not be afraid to use you tube or spotify and follow these beautiful lyrics:

Love, love, love
Love, love, love
Love, love, love
There’s nothing you can do that can’t be done
Nothing you can sing that can’t be sung
Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game
It’s easy
Nothing you can make that can’t be made
No one you can save that can’t be saved
Nothing you can do but you can learn how to be you in time
It’s easy
All you need is love
All you need is love
All you need is love, love
Love is all you need


It is weird that from birth we need to be loved and cared for, then, somehow we forget this. Then there are other factors, or variables which we think we need which become prioritised in our adult lives. However, quite simply…. just to be loved is the best feeling in the world. To be shown and told it. Not to be manipulated or exploited. There is something about the word ‘adulterate‘:


to make food or drink weaker or to lower its quality, by addingsomething else:

There were complaints that the beer had been adulterated with water.
This is the Cambridge dictionary meaning.
And below is the Oxford dictionary meaning with an adjective to ‘adulterate‘ :


Pronunciation: /əˈdʌltəreɪt/


Render (something) poorer in quality by adding another substance:the brewer is said to adulterate his beer


Pronunciation: /əˈdʌlt(ə)rət/


Not pure or genuine:adulterate remedies
So this leads me to my further explanation. The fact that we use adult on a term such as adultery or adulteration; means that in our adult lives we can become corrupted by our experiences. Who we are and what we want is two totally different things. I think to be exploited in such a manner also is a form of adulteration. We would all like to have a simple life and be loved but then it becomes corrupted.
Whenever I see the psychological case studies I always feel, we were born and we were innocent – then something happened to us all to affect us in this manner. There is always consequences to actions and people forget that all we need is to remember our intentions have to be genuine. I look to see if people are being genuine towards me now, more than ever in my adult life because I know how painful it is to lose sight of things because of the demand….
the relentless demand to be better, to have this new phone, this new computer, this holiday, this new item of clothing and why?
When we really do we need the extras? Is it not stressing us all out?
 I must admit that I was upset at one point because I have no money. However, if someone cared then truly I would not have to go through what I am going through. I feel, looking at my whole family and the control element to their love means, it really does not come from a genuine place: if I have to give reasons for my misfortunes in life, or that people have not given me a chance. If there needs to be an explanation to my life and I am really a good person then surely, the family I once knew would find it within themselves to love and care, even if I am not there – to care. To care about my whereabouts and if I am okay. To care if I have food in my mouth, that I am not being abused, that I am safe. It must have happened to them and this is probably why they are not fussed about my welfare. However, where are those limitations where you begin to realise you have to worry about that person?
It goes around in a big circle and the caring element goes. This is it, if someone did not give you enough love in your life,then,  perhaps you would come to the conclusion to treat people with neglect. However, one parent cared and then that was it for me.
I genuinely think that love and understanding became manipulated when people try to control you.
This is what they want…. not your love.
This is reducing the purity of your love. This is making you adulterated and feel devalued. So the thing is, you can have life on your terms but then people need to say – ‘it’s okay we support you and we understand. Here is the help you need to start again.’ Physically giving support to people and let them feel the love again. It is hard. What is amazing is that I have a caring heart after all I have been through. This is how weird and wonderful the world is, you can change if you want to.
If not then we all have to start again somewhere else. For we cannot all be around corruption for too long. We cannot all continue in a vicious cycle of rage and jealousy.  It has been proven it is not healthy and it affects the children in the future.
This is how weird and wonderful the world is without using psychological quotes…..
‘Never let the things you want, make you forget the things you have.’ 
Love and Happiness to you all xxx



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