“You are no longer under no obligation to be the same person you were a year, a month, or even 15 minutes ago. You have the right to grow. No apologies.”
At a stalemate position, you have to ask your inner self the following:
When certain individuals are unable to correlate or cohere what you are talking about, how do you feel?
When you give someone provocation to pry into your private life and they are so rude, pretending to act like they do not know what you mean…. did you notice it?
When someone acts disrespectful towards you and knows your struggle and refuses to accept it…. did you notice it?
How does it feel when someone actually pretends you are odd or different even though you have been through a lot of hell?
Are you mature enough to humble yourself to the other person’s situation?
If you are unable to grow…. you are unable to move on in your mind. If you act immature about situations…
You listening and then getting them to repeat everything like the same old stuff is just painful. For them it is like reliving that same bad story that is making them ill.
Studies suggest that stress is the biggest cause of cancer. I am not cancerous… I just do not believe people can be so impolite, or, unknowingly put people past a certain point when they get to a certain age.
Think about people moving on – this is also a stressful state for them to be in. Thinking about their feelings and being respectful.
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