Weird and Wonderful always calls the country ‘Blighty’ – as it is the referred as the comedians pet name for the UK.
I will get serious about the topics discussed but first let’s be anecdotal to soften the blow of something quite sinister. A lot of mental health issues in Blighty are known to be influenced by media and the press. Weird and Wonderful is just giving an indepth perception of what I interpret so people really do not come out with this ignorant kind of perspective.
The ignorant perspectives cause further problems and deminish the efforts to try and change people’s views or….. scapegoat through some alternative forces being God. Sorry but God right now – has nothing to do with a woman who wants to do this to another woman.
This is too warped for me and I went from really quite frankly accepting people’s choices to knowing what a choice is and what is not through writing: Autonomy a big word that not everyone comprehends or respects ; As I will point out as clear as possible – the other woman didn’t consent to it.
Weird and Wonderful is trying to show empathy and an insight into Blighty that has never been revealed to others; through historical or psychological context.
Many of times I have been accused of being as heartless but no – impossible for me – I love my dignity too much and I respect other people. This right here is a boundary issue crossed by a potential female psychopath as I try to reveal the truth behind Blighty’s press and their sexual obsessions.
Why did this Blighty story shock you?
If ever you felt vulnerable as a person and your trust has completely diminished it would be having someone lie about having cancer scars, this goes way – and I am pausing to express my hyperbole – ——- way beyond expectations!!!!
I read this story today and I can assure you – all my sensitivity body issues would have me shocked to a level of disbelief at this story. Poor, poor woman.
For two years she trusted the individual. Then the alleged ‘boyfriend’ who turned out to be a female friend – was having sex with the woman with a prosthetic penis. I do think it is a bit much.
Blighty you have actually sunk to an all time low if you have created the female version of Ted Bundy!!!!!
As a friend would you do that?
Please, no…. do not ask me to break a person’s trust like that. I mean come on – no!!!! Just no!!! I do not have those tendencies – that’s psycho and I am not for the same sex but I wouldn’t exploit anyone.
As I write this story I feel it is necessary to point out Blighty’s obsession for pornography. This is due to my disbelief of this story.
I mean come on – after years of uncovering the depths of Sexuality and sexual orientation: Blighty has law’s to protect an individual for what sexual orientation they choose.
You even have job applications where you select your sexual orientation: heterosexual, Bisexual, Transgender. There is a lot of reasons why employers want to do this – to follow the law’s. I think Blighty are just full of kinky buggers who would love to be entertained by other people’s sexual orientation. I think there is such a thing as knowing too much about an individual to the point where you are being discriminated against by pointing out you don’t wish to be discriminated against.
So I would like to just point out there is another reason why someone would do this to someone.
So how many Blighty female’s watch pornography?
There isn’t a specific figure but all my data has come from Road to Grace current porn statistics I felt this was necessary to prove a point of Blighty crossing the kinky fads and never actually being able to come back:
“56% of Britons watch porn at least occasionally. 15% do on a regular basis.
53% of UK women read erotica novels at least occasionally.”
The UK Independent, September 29, 2014
As they have channels like Babe Station a Tv Channel where women are wearing next to nothing and thrusting their three penny bits at your screen; Porn Hub, a site with every category of porn imaginable – both are completely free. These boundaries have been crossed and women are admitting to having their sexual fantasy ‘s. As the intensity for for filling the sexual desires and gratification increases these figures indicate the obsession crosses over to the work place:
“A survey of 2000 UK workers showed 1/5 had accessed porn on a personal device that was used for work, putting the company’s computer systems at risk of malware attacks. 15% of men and 8% of women admitted to accessing porn on their work issued computer devices.”
SC Magazine, December 10, 2014
I mean, the world is Weird and Wonderful. However a story like this would have been unheard of 20 years ago. It seems a bit…. you know…. perverse!!!!
Let’s just be honest with ourselves – this isn’t your regular story.
I went to an all girls school. We used to have bully brawls based on our body parts so I find this a little warped to say the least. I have a complexity over the fact I was periodically bullied – no pun intended but it was funny!
What was the incident you remembered at school?
Too fat, too thin, she has breasts and I do not – let’s beat her up because she is different. Body image was the most annoying thing to deal with as a teenager at school.
You would be intimidated daily whether it be verbal or non- verbal communication: the nasty stares or glares – snide remarks or really blatant pretend I like you comments which turned out to be utterly fake.
I think seriously – I used to sit there and not want them to even look at me. You would just feel repulsed and torn apart by judgement.
In my mind doing this to another woman is a little like raping another woman. I don’t know – my mind says if her friend did not agree then it is rape. I think her friend wanted to meet some other man. I would be devastated if this ever happened to me.
What happened to this poor woman?
According to The Independent (2O15) :
The court heard that the alleged victim received a Facebook friend request in 2011 from a Kye Fortune who purported to be a half-Filipino, half-Latino young male.
They communicated online and “Kye” later told her he had been involved in a car accident and medics had found he had a brain tumour.
He was having treatment in hospital and was not well enough to see her, the complainant told police in a video interview.
But the pair spoke frequently on the phone where the complainant described Kye’s voice as “high-pitched”.
The complainant told the interviewing officer: “He was saying how much I had helped him get through his illness.
”(He said) it was a sign, we should get married, we should have kids, we were going to do all sorts of things.“
During this time, the complainant said she met Newland – who became a ”really good friend“ and said she knew Kye.
Eventually the complainant and Kye decided to finally meet in person at a Chester hotel, the jury heard.
She told police that the only stipulation that Kye made was that she wear a blindfold because he was ”anxious about the way he looked“ and ”could not walk properly“ due to nerve and muscle damage.
She said Kye was in the bathroom when she entered the hotel room and the bed was covered with rose petals and Hello Kitty bears.
The complainant said she put on the blindfold of a sleeping mask and scarf and that a ”shaking“ Kye came in and said he had signed himself out of a
private hospital in Manchester.
The pair then had sex, she alleges, before Kye said he had to return to hospital.
Further hotel visits followed where she said sex took place again before Kye visited her flat and finally uncovered the truth, the court heard.
Describing what she said was their last sexual encounter before she went to the police, she said: ”When I was having sex I grabbed for the back of his head and my hand got caught on something. It did not feel right.
“I was sat on the bed, he was standing up. Something in my mind said ‘pull it (the blindfold) off, pull it off’.
”I just pulled it off. Gayle was just standing there … I just couldn’t believe it, I couldn’t believe it.
“Straight away she held her hand down over her face and said ‘it’s not what you think’.”
The complainant said Newland then referred to a previous conversation they had had about a movie called 17 Again in which a character is transported into a younger body and has to convince people it is actually him.
She told the interviewing officer: “I couldn’t believe that person would want to do something like this to me … these last two years had fabricated this world around me.
”He … Gayle … pulled the wool over my eyes.“
She went on: ”I don’t go for women, that is not my thing.
“I know you can’t compare rape case to rape case, I know I shouldn’t be saying this … I think I would have preferred it, I know it sounds sick, the fact that it was a girl. I didn’t know what to do with myself.
”I did not want to go to a doctor and say I was raped by a girl.“
This was all a bit of a shock because either the woman who did it was trying to cheer her friend up or what I have no idea but that is actually what I think it is. I do not doubt a lot of younger people have sexual fantasies but there is such a thing as TWO CONSENTING ADULTS.
So do you think Pornography changes society?
Let’s not be impartial or anything like that but the reason why I brought up the pornography is because I cannot think of why another woman would lure another woman into a vulnerable situation like that. I think Lesbian ‘s are nothing like that…. definitely not!!!! They are outwardly open to their friends and they handle their relationships with love.
Be honest with yourselves when you look at the pornography figures.
Think about scenarios and how other women are quite openly suggesting they want to be men.
If this was a Transgender situation the same theory is applied because the law’s in Blighty are as such that men and women with gender confusion are protected and actually known in society. The Transgender community would totally disagree – the friend would have dressed like ‘Kye’ and openly introduced himself as ‘Kye’…. the alter ego of her friend. Her friend would have had the choice to like her or not.
Then the friend would be known as ‘Kye’, dress like ‘Kye’ and want to be loved as ‘Kye’.
This is full out what you think it is.
So no I do not blame the LGBTIQ community. Anyone who does is quite frankly a very, very bitter individual who would stop at nothing to ruin people’s choices. We shouldn’t do that to others. It isn’t right.
Back to my pornography theory to help uncover this story:
The pornography industry still make money even though things are free. It does make you wonder how many women in the UK watch these things.
I do not think you understand these figures are not because women are Lesbian…
This is because most men have outwardly stated they like to see two women together. So women try to discuss this amongst themselves in public about why men have a fascination for Lesbian.
As you can tell Gay sex is a curiosity as well. So it is free and these women are able to make their curiosity fulfilled. I mean seriously – right there are the answers of things you cannot ask others. However, it gives a warped perseption of love and many psychologist have actually wrote about the perceptions of young people being sort of plagued with this boundary which love is misinterpreted.
There have been studies which reveal the very underbelly of sexual assaults occurrence as ‘Pornography and Sexual Aggression: Are There Reliable Effects and Can We Understand Them?’
Neil M. Malamuth , Tamara Addison and Mary Koss, (2012) state:
“reliable associations between frequent pornography use and sexually aggressive behaviors, particularly for violent pornography and/or for men at high risk for sexual aggression. We suggest that the way relatively aggressive men interpret and react to the same pornography may differ from that of nonaggressive men, a perspective that helps integrate the current analyses with studies comparing rapists and nonrapists as well as with cross-cultural research.”
So there is a problem because this is about a woman but if it affects men; then surely, it would affect a woman?
This is a debate which many would need to sort of cross examination with research because never before have I seen a case like this.
So, I will show more research and the connection between violence and non – violence and validate – this woman has been exposed to pornography to carry out, her sexual offence on a so – called friend.
I mean, seriously I am curious but only in the nature of the beast. As I continued reading to develop my research, I acquired this piece Women’s Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
Rape or near-rape fantasies are surprisingly common. Michael Castleman M.A.(2011) states:
“From 1973 through 2008, nine surveys of women’s rape fantasies have been published. They show that about four in 10 women admit having them (31 to 57 percent) with a median frequency of about once a month. Actual prevalence of rape fantasies is probably higher because women may not feel comfortable admitting them.”
No Offence to Castleman, (2011) – damn right we women are not comfortable admitting that stuff!!!!
However, bondage is bondage, because you give consent and have safe word. This story is so bizarre even my own senses tell me that originally the woman agreed to meet ‘Kye’ wearing a blindfold. You have to admit – kind of kinky. However, the story was he had body issues and told her to wear a blindfold.
I do agree with Castleman M.A, (2011) as he states:
“Romance novels are often called “porn for women.” Porn is all about sexual fantasies. In porn for men, the fantasy is sexual abundance–eager women who can’t get enough and have no interest in a relationship. In porn for women as depicted in romance novels, the fantasy is to be desired so much that the man loses all control, though he never actually hurts the woman, and in the end, marries her.”
It was sort of a crossing a boundary thing. We women are flexible of thoughts through these influences: 50 shades of Grey for example or even Porn Hub!
Recently, I thought about Ted Bundy because of the nature of the woman who carried out these sexual offences.
“I wasn’t some guy hanging out in bars, or a bum. I wasn’t a pervert in the sense that people look at somebody and say, “I know there’s something wrong with him.” I was a normal person. I had good friends. I led a normal life, except for this one, small but very potent and destructive segment that I kept very secret and close to myself. Those of us who have been so influenced by violence in the media, particularly pornographic violence, are not some kind of inherent monsters. We are your sons and husbands. We grew up in regular families. Pornography can reach in and snatch a kid out of any house today. It snatched me out of my home 20 or 30 years ago. As diligent as my parents were, and they were diligent in protecting their children, and as good a Christian home as we had, there is no protection against the kinds of influences that are loose in a society that tolerates…”
– Ted Bundy, serial killer and rapist, estimated to have raped and murdered over a hundred women.
Seriously you would have to be a psychopath to carry out such acts on a person and betray their trust. I felt that this was necessary to convey as many people jump onto the bandwagon of bashing Gay people when it isn’t necessary.
Pornography creates the curiosity and the nature for some individuals who wish to cross the boundary. Their sexual deviance turns into crime when they do not have consent.
When a person forces themselves or is deceiving it is rape. Without a shadow of a doubt.
This is very important for everyone to establish in their minds.
I am not gay but I know when we have had enough of this crazy sexually exploited and aggressive pursuing.
Mass Media in Blighty is such that people are willing to cross boundaries and have strange moments.
I just know because the rest of the world does not actually behave like this as Porn Hub statistics continue. Bare this in mind 18.3 billion visits to Porn Hub over its free time. It has had nearly as many hits to you tube:
We look deeper into those figures. As this is just the centre of the core.
United kingdoms averages are a lille on the unequal side, alongside, Australia, Japan, United states. So this is probably due a number of reasons – free porn means it doesn’t have to be used constantly. Some countries are not shy about admitting they watch porn. Some countries have not developed their reasoning behind it.
By the end of the day the way the rest of the world works isn’t the way Blighty works. We haven’t even embarked on child and women exploitation law’s – yet other countries in the EU have. We are behind and with a population of 64 million – Blighty is a place for the confused.
It’s not equal, it is a version of inequality for such figures as the rest of the world devolop their curiosity.
Feelings are just a scope… I mean I could feel like the influence is too much and many could feel that it is not enough research to suggest the nature of pornography. Many could also feel the Exploitation of women in the sex industry could make the psychological connection for abusive situations. Studies need to be conducted and goverment ‘s need to be aware of how it is affecting certain individuals. Just think of the young people who are affected through watching free porn:
“10% of U.K. 12 and 13 year olds fear they are addicted to porn. 12% of 12-13 year olds admitted to participating in a sexually explicit video. One girl told the story of how, when she was 12, her then 12 year old “boyfriend” sexually assaulted her.
BBC News, March 31, 2015”
Bearing in mind only a million of a population of 64 million a year are educated to degree level in Blighty. Figures are 4 million are actually above degree level in terms of skills. When people enter university they have a different view of sex;
“A survey of 2500 UK school and university students showed:
60% watch porn to get information about sex
75% said that sex ed at school was not practical and rated it fair, poor, or terrible.
75% said that porn creates unrealistic expectations.
50% said that issues they need to know are not available in class.
The Guardian, January 29, 2015”
To ascertain whether or not this is affecting individuals. Get ready for a bumpy ride dwellers of Blighty! You are waiting for an awful long time for the government you have now to actually look at the affects on the population.
I wouldn’t mind people paying but if this is going to become a common occurrence as Castleman M.A, (2011) suggests; then maybe citizens of Blighty need proper statistics protecting the most vulnerable in society. I feel sorry for the individual and I hope it doesn’t become a common thing.
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This post was moving. That story was sick. I’ve sunk into another level of thinking so I don’t really know what to say.
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Been emotional about the media attack on humanity in Blighty. They are seriously playing with fire.
Yes, we have law’s in the UK but not rape law’s that cover this kind of action. I really did not know how to take it all in. I was stunned as well.
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